Hosting a bridal shower is a fun way to show the bride how much she means to you and your friends. Here are the basics:

Hosting and Gifts
A bridal shower is usually hosted by the maid of honor, matron of honor or friend of the family. Gifts are customary, though by tradition they are normally not as "large" (expensive) as a wedding gift. Small, practical giving is the norm, with guests usually seeking to purchase less expensive items from the couples' registry.

History
The Bridal Shower dates only to the early 1800s. The custom originated when a Dutch couple intended to marry, but the groom was of little means. The bride's father, judging his future son-in-law was not a good provider, refused to provide a dowery for his daughter. But the townspeople were fond of the couple and held a party to "shower" the bride with gifts in place of a dowery. Showers now are customarily held in honor of the bride, but many modern showers instead honor the couple, or even the groom himself.

Planning a Bridal Shower
It is customary to have at least one bridal shower but many times a bride may have multiple bridal showers hosted by different friends. The bride should be consulted as to who she wishes to attend. For multiple showers, try to invite different groups of people who may also attend the wedding, so that there is as little overlap as possible. Unless they are co-workers, it is also customary for shower guests to be invited to and attend the wedding itself.

Location and Scheduling
Traditionally, the shower was held in a home of the maid of honor. Showers can also be held in restaurants, bars, hotels, halls, and country clubs. The location should be convenient for guests, of adequate size and easy to find. Also look for adequate parking, a well-lit approach and easy access (few stairs, etc.) if the shower is at night.

Bridal showers usually take place at least a few weeks prior to the wedding, though they can be held further in advance. Take into account out-of-town guests when planning the shower. The bride and groom should be consulted as to the scheduling.

Themes
Bridal showers are joyous occasions. Formal showers may be held in the afternoon or evening. Informal showers may include fun and interesting themes that will enhance the activity and gift-giving. Primarily the focus of the shower is to honor the bride (and groom) and provide necessities and luxuries for the new married couple.